I’ve had some bad relationships in the past…everyone has! I’ve been cheated on and its made me so insecure about every relationship since. I’ve been with my boyfriend for about a year now and I can honestly say that things are great. I finally let my guard down a little, but just found out my boyfriend is still hung up on his ex. Since I’ve had bad relationships I tend to check his phone n stuff. I saw this text to his friend that said “I can’t stop thinking about her,” and my heart sank. It’s obviously his ex, Erin! How could he still be thinking about her? They broke up like 2 years before he met me and he’s never told me that anything has been bad in our relationship. Seriously? I don’t get it! I’m not gonna be treated like dirt & embarrassed again! Should I flat out ask her if they’ve been talking again? I don’t want to ask him ‘cause he’ll know I was in his phone! What should she do?