Crew's Inbox- Her Bf Wants To "Try Before He Buys"
by Chris & The Crew,posted Sep 17 2012 7:14AM
I have no problem saying I love my boyfriend and I know he is “the one.” We’ve been together for almost three years and we’re so good together. He always tells me how he can’t wait to marry me, buy a house and have a bunch of kids so I def wanna move things along. One night we were hanging out and I just turned n him n said, “So when are you gunna get me a ring?” I def caught him by surprise, but I was still looking for an answer. He says to me, “I’m not sure babe, I’m more of a try it before I buy it kinda guy.” I said, “It’s fine, I’ll make sure when I try some rings on I’ll get the exact size.” He then says, “I wasn’t talking about the ring I was talking about you”…OMG WHAT the heck does that mean? I had no idea what he was talking about and I asked him to explain and he said, “That’s just how I feel ya know?” No! I do not know! That’s why I asked you to explain! Now I’m totally lost! Is he saying he’s having second thoughts on marrying me? Does this mean he really isn’t ready to propose? Am I just pushing him?
Should I wait for him to figure it out or is he never gunna come around?