After 5 yrs together, I just got engaged to the love of my life. Things are pretty hectic right now with all the planning because we want to get married in a few months, so stuff needs to get done! We were going over our guest lists when he pulls out this for me to look at…it was a prenup! I was so insulted & hurt! Does he think I’m just after his money or something? I mean he has a good job, and he does come from a great family, but it's not like they're the Kardashians or anything, and besides I have a great job! He told me to calm down and it was just in case we do get a divorce. In Case?! Who thinks about this stuff when you just got engaged?! We should be signing wedding contracts NOT a pre-nup!
Do you think this is a red flag…that he doesn’t think our marriage will last?