Wherever you are, but especially in cities, it’s common to here women lament that “the men here are the worst!” (Maybe unless you go to one of these colleges!) Whether or not the dating scene is truly awful where you are, some women are doing something about it.
According to the New York Post, some women in New York have had enough of city guys and they’re doing something about it. Much like the sacrifices that might have to be made for a dream job, the women are commuting to meet men. In fact, reverse commuting as it’s called when you travel out of the city. They’re hitting up more suburban areas in Westchester County, Greenwich, Connecticut, and New Jersey. Call it Sex Not In The City.
According to the women interviewed, they’ll take a 30 minute train ride after work on weeknights to meet men that they claim are more mature and less obsessed with appearances. Dating experts like Patti Stanger of Millionaire Matchmaker support the trend. I guess if you’re on a mission to find Mr. Right you might be willing to put some effort into it, but this sounds costly—train tickets, cabs, or gas money add up, ladies!
Obviously, most of you probably don’t live in NYC but I wonder if any of you feel like you have the same problem. Maybe the guys in your area just don’t do it for you or you’re not having any luck there. But would you ever consider traveling for a night out to meet men outside your town? I kind of feel like I wouldn’t purposely do so, mostly because I’m way too lazy to spend 30 minutes commuting every time I see my boyfriend, assuming I did meet someone and hit it off. But maybe you guys think it’s worth it for love.
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